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Dear Reader, If you are reading this while carrying grief, I want you to know how deeply I see you. This time of year has a way of bringing everything closer to the surface. Even when we choose connection and plan to gather, grief can rise in quiet and unexpected moments. So many people tell me they feel they need to perform during the holidays, to hold it together, keep things steady, and make sure everyone else is comfortable. Often, that performance happens in front of people who are...
Hello Reader, The holidays can have a way of making absence feel especially present. Even familiar traditions or quiet moments can stir longing, sadness, or a sense that the world is moving forward while your heart is still catching up. If this season feels particularly heavy because someone you love is missing, there is nothing wrong with you. This week, I am sharing a holiday reflection focused on meditation and continuing bonds. It is meant to support you when the missing wants relief,...
Hello Reader, If Thanksgiving felt like a lot, you are not alone. This holiday can stir up memories, tension, exhaustion, and the quiet ache of who is missing. When you are grieving, even the idea of checking in with yourself can feel overwhelming, so I want to make this simple and doable. Here is a gentle framework you can try this week. Begin by finding a quiet placeA few minutes where you will not be interrupted. Become the observerNotice the part of you that is aware and the part of you...